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Day 351: Some Honesty About Tonight’s Outing

Posted on July 29, 2023

Tonight my wife and I went to see “The Addams Family” musical at Music Circus.

It was a good play, I feel happy and entertained afterward, which means the show did its job.

The music was well-done, if at times fairly obvious or even campy. I would have liked something musically darker, less cheery, or at least a little more weird, but that might be the influence of Tim Burton/Danny Elfman movies I grew up watching. This play had a legitimately Burton-esque dark look to it, with excellent costuming and make-up that transformed the cast into a truly gothic ensemble of the undead.  The cast, as usual for Music Circus productions, did a wonderful job in every respect. However, to me the music didn’t quite live up to the off-beat potential of the subject matter. While watching (or more accurately, listening), I often felt that if you removed the costuming, you could be watching any number of brightly-lit Broadway musicals playing a similar song and dance. Meanwhile, the lyrics were first-rate.

Admittedly, tonight I wasn’t thrilled to be going into a crowded theater. Partly I was a bit tired after this morning’s 9-mile run. Partly it’s that I generally feel conflicted about being at public events. On the one hand, I love seeing well-done entertainment (and tonight’s entertainment was well-done). On the other, being in crowds can often overwhelm or confuse me, especially coming in cold. These days I accept this about myself. I even surprised my wife tonight by bringing this up as we sat in our seats before the show started. This is something I have never done before.

I had a powerful realization during intermission, when I stood in line to get water. The guy at the checkout was someone I am acquainted with from previous high school theater productions in the area.  I’ve also seen him working at Music Circus before. As I looked at him, I thought to myself, “This guy must be okay with being around people all the time to take a job like this. This would make me miserable. I am so glad I don’t have to do this kind of thing.”

Ha! Now there’s some honesty for you!

When I told my wife about this observation, she said she was proud of me.

It was a good night. I like that I’m telling myself the truth about my experience.

 

 

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1 thought on “Day 351: Some Honesty About Tonight’s Outing”

  1. Margaret Murray says:
    July 30, 2023 at 7:29 pm

    Oh yes, I so agree with your praise of The musical The Secret Garden put on by Sacramento’s fabulous Music Circus. Thank you for taking me!

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