If you are happy, even in the worst of circumstances, your energy transcends the circumstances. You are then leading the circumstances, generating your own experience. You are truly “in control” of your life because you control your vibration. Whereas, if you are always looking to circumstances as your cue, deciding your worthiness or lack thereof based on what is happening outside of you, then you are always at the mercy of conditions you can’t control. This leads nowhere good. I have a friend who is continually hard on himself. No…